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It sounds easy, but the truth is, if you're just looking for a casual hookupit can involve just as much negotiation and emotional awareness as a deeper romantic encounter. And it's really important that you let the other person know what you're interested in, or else you could have a lot of confusion and hurt feelings on your hands. It seems like asking for hookup should be straightforward, but it can actually be a really uncomfortable — and important — conversation to have.
Remember that you have every right to just want to have some fun and, as long as everything is safe and consensual, there's no reason that casual hookup can't be a great time. So how do you politely let someone know you're only looking for a hookup?
It's all about being clear and considerate. Here's what you have to keep in mind.
Whatever you do, don't leave room for ambiguity. You want the other person to be totally clear about what you're looking for.
If that sounds difficult or you don't really feel like having the conversation before things heat up, remember that the longer you avoid the conversation the more difficult it will be when you eventually have it. Honesty and integrity are just as important in any relationship, even a casual one. Even if you have no romantic attachment to this person, you still need to treat them with compassion and respect. It's really important to make it clear that this is all you want right now — and that it's nothing to do with them.
It's a lot easier to hear that someone doesn't want a relationship at allthan that they don't want a relationship with you specifically.
Not everyone is down for a casual fling, so it's important to go into the conversation knowing that it might not be their thing. If they say no, that's fine — just respond with some compassion. If they are interested in a hookup, then it's time to talk safe sex.
This might be the most awkward part of the conversation, but it's also the most important. Plus, talking about safe sex is not only crucial, but it also makes it totally clear that you're not interested in any kind of monogamous attachment.
Having a casual hookup can be fun and fulfilling, but you need to make sure that you're both on the same first. By being honest, compassionate, and, above all, clear, you can always feel confident asking for what you want.
By Lea Rose Emery.
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