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Forgot your password? So far we have only been using Adult Friend Finder to look for couples that we might be compatible with. Our profile is clear in what we are looking for in a couple and it's nothing overly picky. At the end we state we move at our own pace and we are looking to start with same room with our partners. When we start a conversation with a couples or single men over the IM I always say "We move at our own pace which may be two slow for some.

If that's not what your looking for that's ok. We can move on. Everyone always says they are ok with it. Every time we get two or three s into a conversation they push for a meeting. Most recently without even seeing a picture of them and they only gave 3 or 4 one word answers.

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With it being online and us being new to all of this I don't want to end up having a bad experience with a pushy single or couple. That would totally our interest in lifestyle. Looking for advice for those with experience. Are we doing something wrong? How long is a typical chat before a meeting? Maybe you should go to a club many good ones in Toronto.

You can meet people in person. The sites can be tedious. Just to get to meet a couple is often an ordeal.

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In fact its a fairly long and in depth subject that can have many reasons and variables, some of those reasons and variables are BAD, and some of them are not, for example:. They meet someone nice online, they begin chatting and sharing s, they are surprised to find this person or couple sound totally perfect for them. Theirs pictures look clean and attractive, their experience levels match your own, what they are looking for matches you perfectly, even their hobbies sound like a great match to your own and all of a sudden you become excited, you finally think you have found an amazing match to play with, someone who on paper seems perfect for you.

Then however you discover this person is actually nervous about meeting, they say things like "We want to chat more first" or "We want to get to know you better on line before meeting" or even "We don't just want to rush in and meet in person as were still a little nervous" so over the next 2,3,4 months you play ping pong, you answer their questions, you tell them all about you as people, you talk in depth about the things you would like to explore, you tell them you find them very attractive, you get even more excited reading their responses, and THEN after weeks or even months of effort THEY VANISH WITHOUT A TRACE!!!!

Its what a lot of swingers call the "Endless Trap" and usually its either a man who enjoys reading naughty messages and seeing naked pictures of people so he can masturbate to the idea of a threesome, or its a single women who enjoys getting 4 million messages telling her she is sexy, and on some Swinger couples wants sex chats it even couples where the male half of the couple already knows his wife will not agree to swinging so instead he messages people alone and gets all horny reading the messages, but actually has no intention of meeting people in person. Over the years this has happened to me 3 or 4 times and have to say its very frustrating and upsetting to waste your time chatting to people, to spend hours or even days thinking about replies, to read s that on paper sound perfect, then after weeks or even months of effort just have that person delete their and vanish into the wind.

You suddenly realise that you have wasted an incredible amount of time effort and thought on a person who was never going to meet in the first place, a person who simply wanted to talk about the idea of swinging but not actually swing with you at all, just talk endlessly.

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With that in mind a lot of couples, and even some singles are eager to avoid that situation, they don't want massive chats online, they don't want to spend weeks ing each other, in fact they simply want to meet you for a coffee to see you are a real person, to see that you are willing to meet up, to make sure your not just looking for endless chats, to make sure your not just some horny man masturbating behind a computer screen or some needy attention seeking girl wanting to read messages everyday telling her how great and attractive she looks. FAKE PROFILES: This is a little similar to above but sadly in this lifestyle some idiot time wasting people do create totally "Fake s" for example if you imagine a grossly over weight 38 year old who still lives in his mothers basement and spends all his time sitting on a computer, the kind of guy who hasn't bathed properly in a week, the kind of guy who is messy, smelly, addicted to masturbating, the kind of guy who can not even find a partner in the real world, then sure such people often create fake Swinger couples wants sex chats identities, they pretend to be a young hot single women, or they pretend to be a fit attractive single man and steal other peoples pictures and set up fake s.

These people are usually very very sexually motivated and they will ask a barrage of sexual questions such as They basically want you to tell them a sexual story whilst they furiously masturbate to your replies, but again this is an incredible waste of time, this person is never going to meet you in real life or else you would have a 35 stone guy showing up with reseeding greasy hair and seaman stains covering his unwashed trousers. So when a couple does experience things like this they often insist on a social meeting very quickly indeed, they say "Lets simply meet for a coffee" lets see were all real, lets get some proof your willing to meet in person and don't just want sexy online talk.

If you speak with some of the more experienced swingers on this web site then they will have numerous stories where they have met couples only to find a highly sexed man who wants sex now, now, now, and his wife is a scared little sheep who has obviously been pushed or talked into this situation. Usually you would meet the couple and play maybe 1 or 2 times before the unwilling wife who is been dragged along begins to cause issues, that couple will often argue, fall out, become erratic which will give you a bad experience in the long run.

However if you quickly meet that couple for a coffee you can soon assess if they are both interested, if one of them is been pushed or rail roaded into this subject. That in a lot of cases horny husbands sat at home will message you and agree to meet without their wife even having a clue and she will be talked or forced into the situation later after its agreed, spotting such couples is a way to avoid a lot of drama and usually the only way you can spot that is by meeting them for a coffee and finding out in person.

Such men will ask you to meet NOW, straight away, they will ask you to meet without even asking your names, without even introducing themselves, without any chatting whatsoever because their prime goal is sex and pleasing their penis, their prime goal is NOT YOU, just the holes your body has, to such men you are a walking vagina on legs, you are a cum bucket, something in which to ram their dicks and in my experience you can usually spot such people by their messages and they are worth avoiding.

Basically rude sexual messages with no interest in you as people, such messages get deleted straight away, if they persist they often get blocked. But generally the "We must meet NOW and have dirty sex" type things come from men. You can start by avoiding those messages, but sadly like stated for every 1 decent person or couple there are of these rude sexed crazed men looking for easy no strings sex. THE ONLINE BOX: Most of us know that speaking online can be very difficult, that your words can easily be misinterpreted, your words can easily be taken wrong, that actually online you are not a person you are a small box of text on a computer screen.

You will find when speaking online a lot of people will speak a lot naughtier than they would in person, they will speak about sex, they will talk about all the rude things they would like to do, they may even embellish some truths or even make up a few facts about themselves. Often the best way to really get to know that person is by meeting them in person hence whya lot of people will say, lets meet for a coffee and see how we get along, it cuts out the unreal online situation and lets you see the real person behind the box.

This has happened to me several times, but I have met someone online, I have spent several weeks chatting to them, we have discussed all sorts of subjects, we have basically spoken about everything we would like to happen, we have answered questions, we have discussed likes and dislikes, we have discussed rules and boundaries, we have shared pictures. That for whatever reason you know its not going to work out. Maybe you meet them and find their sense of hygiene doesn't match your own, maybe you meet them only to find an aggressive pushy Swinger couples wants sex chats is leading the way, maybe you meet them and the things they say in person put you off them, maybe you meet them are the 20 year old pictures they had online told a very different story to them today.

Meeting in person is often a very quick way to find out if your even interested in this person, its a quick way to assess if this person will even meet you in real life, a quick way to figure out if they are a real person or a time waster or fake.

Give it a few years and when you encounter these time wasters, then you encounter these fake profile people, when you waste hours of your time messaging people who have no intention of meeting you in real life at all then suddenly YOU will be the one asking to meet for a coffee straight away.

In my experience there is nothing wrong with meeting someone for a social coffee meet quickly, it will allow you to weed out the time wasters and fakes, it will allow you to quickly see if your really interested in this person without wasting hours messaging them. My general advice would be to share a few messages and then arrange to meet this person or couple for a social coffee just as friends. On meeting this person pick a coffee house or quiet bar that is not near your home, travel into the city centre and meet somewhere away from your home, do not tell this person specific details about your lives, do not tell them where you work, so not tell them what road or street you live on, do not tell them who your friends or family are, do not tell what clubs or pubs you attend, instead just be vague, just have a normal chat avoiding direct details about your life.

Have a chat, spend some time chatting, see if you like them in person, see if they are a good match for you, see if you can notice any red flags or issues, after which say goodnight and head home Swinger couples wants sex chats your partner and then discuss what you think?

Also its worth remembering that you will arrange to meet some people and they won't even turn up at all, these people are the fakes and time wasters who you have quickly weeded out of the bunch. Perhaps the biggest thing you will find is just how different a person is when meeting them in real life, yes they can look and sound perfect on paper, their messages and s can sound amazing but meeting them in person often tells the real story.

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SINGLE MEN: I noticed you mentioned single guys in your post, well please be aware that a massive, massive amount of these so called "Single Men" are not actually single at all and a huge amount of them are actually cheating on their wives or girlfriends. You will find a lot of guys are rude, they are only interested in you for easy sex, they can be pushy, can give one line answers, can be totally sex crazed, a lot of them will lie to people simply to get sex so be careful when chatting to such men, don't let a sea of cheating idiots put you off Swinger couples wants sex chats nice people who are out there.

We met two couples that were lots of fun and not pushy at all. But we didn't meet them through any swinger's site like SLS. I think that folks who put profiles on SLS, and similar sites, are wanting action faster than you. Anyway, the first couple was someone, the husband, who also posted on the same site and we became friends through feedback on each other's work. Then the wives got into it and we had lots of fun exchanges and even very revealing phot exchanges. And, btw With the second couple it was the wife who was posting.

We probably knew them for two months or more before we set up an evening and time to meet online and chat. That first chat session was an hour into it when we, unplanned, began exchanging photos.

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They, like us, had taken lots of photos in advance After the first, rather risque ones were exchanged, the ice was broken and very explicit photos flowed that night. First decide and agree upon what it is you are looking for, MFM, bi experience for her or you or whatever. Then go to a club as suggested. If your goal is something with another couple, make it a couples club. If its just having sex in front of others, or even bi activity for her, make it a couples club Life will be much more simple. Our experience with AFF hasn't been very positive, but your may vary.

We would suggest trying somewhere else. We would suggest that you take them up on the offer and meet them. Let them know that the first meeting is ONLY a meeting usually for drinks or dinner.

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Playing is off the table. That takes a lot of the pressure off of a meeting. Go out, have a nice night with your SO and get the chance to talk with another couple that is already doing what you are hoping to do. Worst thing is that you get information and insight from another more experienced couple. Best thing is you get a second date Online is just like real life- it has its share of knobhe.

This is just a tool to explore options. Once you discover a possible lead, you will still need to use your reason and discernment to advance. People are on these sites to meet in person. Frankly, you could be lying and not an actual couple, have you ever seen the show 'Catfish'?

Well nobody wants to be 'Catfished' for want of a better term. So if there is no meeting after a few s, the people you are talking to get suspicious and are better off moving on. Sorry I would say you are being unrealistic, and short sighted in what you are expecting from others.

You may say what your meaning of 'your pace'is? A month or two of s and texts? More than three or four? Eight or Ten s or texts?

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